Etiquette
On The Road
Effectiveness for Mobile ExecutivesPaula Gamonal The OpportunityAlthough we had heard that corporate travel had slowed post 9/11 and due to the economic slowdown, there are still LOTS of people doing a LOT of traveling! Many companies are more geographically diverse than they used to be, and although technology is great (See Virtual Teamwork for tips on how to AVOID traveling when possible) There are times when there is no substitute for actually being there in person. The biggest advantage to being there in person is making face-to-face contact and personal connections and relationships with coworkers, clients, and customers. It is much easier to work with people that you know and that you are comfortable with. This article will help you make the most of that face-time. It is written for people who travel, or people who work with travelers. Face-to-Face Contact - Why Etiquette is More ImportantThe way you act, and the way you dress, are means of communication; whether the message is intentional or not. Demonstrating good manners and being appropriately dressed communicates that you are serious about your job, that you respect the people you're doing business with, and that you understand the corporate culture. People subconsciously form an opinion about you within the first few seconds of meeting you, long before you've had a chance to demonstrate your competence at your job. Many people will tell you that etiquette is only important for salespeople, but any business person, at some level, is a salesperson. Even If you're an auditor or competitor, you are representing your company, your department, or yourself in every business transaction. What you are selling may be a project, an idea, or maybe just cooperation with your mission. Whatever it is, it will be an easier "sell" if you start off on the right foot. It used to be that in your first week on the job you could get a pretty good feel for the written and unwritten "dress code" and the etiquette standards of a company culture by simply walking around the halls and observing what people were wearing and how they were interacting with each other. That's not always possible today. Many organizations have statewide, national or international presence. They have locations, clients, suppliers and other people they do business with in separate cities, and even on separate continents! Logistics - Getting Murphy on Your SideMurphy's Law seems to apply even more when you travel. With many possible things that could go wrong, it pays to invest some time before and during your trip to reduce the potential for problems and errors. Doing your homework, and putting some thought into your packing will spare you uncomfortable or even embarassing moments! Doing Your Homework
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Being "Regionally Appropriate" Two ExamplesIt's important to know the basic differences in cultures between geographical regions you'll be working in. Consult travel shows, guidebooks, the Internet, or people you know in the area to find out about any "gotchas." If you have to go somewhere without knowing the details, you might consider toning down anything that is very distinctive about your dress and demeanor until you get the feel of the place. Example One - A businessman in Dallas would find it perfectly acceptable to wear a western suit with a bolo tie and cowboy boots in even the most formal boardroom. That same businessman meeting with clients in Boston would find that the first thing his clients noticed was his mode of dress- not his ideas, projects or products. Example Two - A woman having a business lunch in New York notices a colleague at the entrance to the restaurant. The woman beckons her colleague with a loud, enthusiastic welcome and a "come here" gesture- palm up and gesturing with the index finger that she would like her colleague to join the party. This same woman in a similar situation in Seoul, Korea would be unintentionally delivering an insult - loud voices are inappropriate, and the gesture is one used only to call a dog, not to beckon a human being. (Humans are beckoned with all fingers in a fluttering motion and the palm facing down.) Reducing "Social Friction"At an elementary level, etiquette (including dress and grooming) is a set of rules and expectations we have for dealing with each other. The intention behind etiquette is to reduce the "social friction" between people so that we can relate to one another and communicate well. At the extreme, failing to use good etiquette can be offensive to the people you work with. This sets up an environment of mistrust and potential conflict - leading to poor communication, corporate dysfunction, a poor working environment, and lost sales. It's not just the big-league executives you need to impress. The administrative assistant in a client's office, or a service person in a hotel or restaurant has an amazing amount of power to help or hurt your business transactions. Offending someone in one of these positions could result in finding everyone "too busy" to make copies of your materials; or finding yourself seated next to the noisy kitchen for an important business lunch. Conversely, by paying attention to the rules of etiquette, (by sending a thank-you note to an administrative person who went out of her way to help you, or by being polite and tipping appropriately in a restaurant) you may find that they look forward to your subsequent visits and do what they can to help you. Human contact is usually the most vital reason for traveling, there is much you can do to improve your effectiveness on business trips. To summarize some ideas:
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